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Sometimes I’m amazed that there can be so much joy in life. Other times, I’m amazed at how difficult life can be. Both perspectives are legitimate, and I sometimes experience both in the same day. So it goes. It’s easy to remember some of the challenges: - In a winter storm, my car slides off the Interstate and into a ravine. - I’m not chosen for the assignment for which I diligently prepared. - Our best graphic designer resigns to accept a government job. - I injure my back. - A colleague misappropriates $12,000 from my company. - My wife discovers she has breast cancer. - My portfolio loses 90% of its value. And so on. I could cite many, many more instances, but there’s no need. Even the minor challenges have been discouraging, but I know my life is no more difficult than anyone else’s. The most important thing I’ve learned about disappointment, frustration and pain is that when it’s fresh it's huge, and it can prevent me from appreciating the positives. The upsides are always there; but when bad things happen, the upsides are overshadowed. With the disadvantages of my situation staring me in the face, how can I see the advantages? I feel weak, so how can I be strong? With costs piling up, how can I get excited about benefits? When faced with so many problems, how can I believe in solutions? With these limitations, how can I appreciate the possibilities? The true optimist doesn't ignore reality. He or she takes a good, hard look at both the positive and the negative aspects of reality. About optimism... “We are all faced with a series of great opportunities brilliantly disguised as unsolvable problems.” - John W. Gardner, American author (1912-2002 ) "I have had dreams, and I have had nightmares. I overcame the nightmares because of my dreams." - Jonas Salk, American biologist (1914-1995) “When one door of happiness closes another opens; but often we look so long at the closed door that we do not see the one which has been opened for us.” - Helen Keller, American author (1880-1968) “Even if I knew that tomorrow the world would go to pieces, I would still plant my apple tree.” - Martin Luther King, Jr., American civil rights leader (1929-1968) When bad things happen, I need to be strong enough to recognize the possibilities, to work with the resources available to me. At the very least, I can always learn from what has happened. Even if my world is turned upside down, I now have the freedom to move forward in a different way. What I do next will open up a new succession of fulfillments and opportunities that would not have been possible if I had not been visited by adversity.
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Dennis E. Coates is CEO of Performance Support Systems, author of MindFrames, a brain-based personality assessment system (www.initforlife.com) and co-founder of the Train-to-Ingrain alliance (www.train-to-ingrain.com, info@train-to-ingrain.com, 800-488-6463), which delivers a reinforcement-centered approach to learning and development that achieves permanent, measurable improvements in workplace behavior and positive impacts on business results.
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